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I Will Allure Her

Part IV · The Wilderness of the Betrothal

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There is a prophet of whom God asked something He asked of no one else: marry a woman you know will be unfaithful to you, have children with her, and live out in your own marriage what I go through with Israel. The prophet was named Hosea, and his marriage became a living image of God's heart. And in the middle of that book stands the most beautiful declaration of love in the whole Bible — but it begins in a way that takes your breath away, for before God wins His wife back, He first takes everything from her.

First: how it went wrong. Israel, God's bride, had run after other lovers — the Baals, the fertility gods of the land. And she reasoned the way an unfaithful wife reasons: "I will go after my lovers, who give me my bread and my water, my wool and my flax, my oil and my drink" (Hosea 2:5; this chapter follows the English numbering, which numbers Hosea 2 two verses lower than the Hebrew Bible — the "alluring" of 2:14 is there called 2:16). She thought her lovers maintained her. And that is the tragedy of all idolatry: you credit the good gifts of God to the gods who never gave them. For, God says, "she did not acknowledge that it was I Who gave her the grain, the new wine, and the oil" (2:8). Everything she thought Baal gave came from His hand.

And how does a betrayed God respond? Not, as you might expect, at once with tender words. First with a wall. "Therefore, behold, I will hedge up your way with thorns, I will build a wall, so that she shall not find her paths" (2:6). He bars her way to her lovers. And then He takes back what she had wrongly ascribed: "I will take back My grain in its time, My new wine in its appointed season; I will take away My wool and My flax" (2:9). He empties her out. He strips from her exactly the thing she thought came from her lovers, until her hands are empty and her gods fall silent and there is nothing left to hide behind.

It seems cruel. It is the opposite. For upon all that taking-away follows a word — and it begins with one impossible conjunction:

"Therefore, behold, I Myself will allure her, I will lead her into the wilderness, and speak to her heart" (Hosea 2:14; Heb. 2:16).

Therefore. After all that taking-away you expect: therefore I will divorce her. Therefore it is over. And God says: therefore I will woo her. The taking-away was no punishment ending in a divorce; it was the prelude to a new courtship. He emptied her hands, not to let her starve, but to be able to fill them again — this time with Himself. He barred the way to her lovers, not to imprison her, but to leave open the only road that leads to Him. And that road runs, as always, into the wilderness.

I will lead her into the wilderness, and speak to her heart. Why must it be the wilderness? In the land full of grain and wine the Baals are everywhere; there is always another voice there, another lover, another explanation for where your bread comes from. In the wilderness all of that is gone. No fields to imagine yourself rich by, no temples of Baal, no crowd to hide yourself in. Only she, and He, and the silence. Only there, when all the other voices have fallen away, can He speak to her heart — not to her mind, not to her sense of duty, but to that deepest, hidden part that opens only when it is safe enough, and quiet enough. God leads His bride into the empty land because love does not thrive in the noise. He wants her alone, to be able to say to her the one thing she never once heard from all her lovers.

And what He promises her in that wilderness turns around the worst place of her past. "I will give her her vineyards from there, and the Valley of Achor for a door of hope" (2:15). The Valley of Achor — Achor means "misery, calamity". It was the place of Israel's deepest shame at the entry into the land: there Achan was stoned because he had stolen from the devoted things, there lay the curse that had made a whole nation stumble. The valley of disaster. And God promises to change that very valley into a door of hope — the site of your greatest failure becomes the passage into your new beginning. This is how He always does it: He makes the wilderness a bridal chamber, the valley of misery a door of hope, the place where you fell the threshold over which you return.

And then comes the most intimate word of all. "On that day, declares YHWH, you will call Me: my Husband; and you will no longer call Me: my Baal" (2:16). In Hebrew there is a play on words you can almost hear even in translation. Baʿal means "lord, owner, master" — and it is also the name of the idol. Until then Israel called God my Baal — my Master, my Owner, with precisely the same name as the idol around the corner. And God says: that is over. From now on you will call Me Ishi — my Husband, my Beloved. No longer an owner, but a spouse. The relationship moves from ownership to love, from servitude to wedding — and the name of the idol disappears even from her lips.

And then God says it three times, the way a bridegroom under the canopy speaks his vow three times, so that no doubt can remain: "I will betroth you to Me forever; yes, I will betroth you to Me in righteousness and in justice, in lovingkindness and in mercy. In faithfulness I will betroth you to Me; and you shall know YHWH" (2:19-20). Three times I will betroth you to Me — forever, in righteousness, in faithfulness. This is no repair of the old, unsteady marriage; this is a new marriage, closer than the first, with bridal gifts that cannot spoil: justice, love, compassion, faithfulness. And the dowry He gives her is the deepest thing there is: and you shall know YHWH — not to know about Him, but to know Him, the way a wife knows her husband.

Set beside the woman in the wilderness, the whole picture lights up. Why is she nourished there by a hand that does not name itself (Revelation 12:6)? Because God has taken away every other feeder — no Baal to give her grain, no lover to maintain her, only He, hidden, who lays the manna down for her so that she may at last know from whose hand she lives. Why those three and a half years in the silence, out of everyone's sight? Because He wants her alone, to speak to her heart. The keeping of the woman is no cold survival operation. It is a courtship. The 1,260 days are the wilderness of Hosea 2: the empty land where God, at last, wins back His bride — emptied out and brought to stillness. What from outside looks like a siege is, from within, a honeymoon.

Are you reading this with empty hands — with, so it feels, everything taken away that you thought you needed, left behind in a barren land where none of your old certainties grows anymore? Then this may be the word you need most. That emptying need not be the end. It may be the therefore of Hosea 2: not "therefore I let you go", but "therefore I will win you back". He barred the way to your lovers in order to clear the way to His heart. He emptied your hands in order to fill them with Himself. And the valley of your deepest misery — the place where you stumbled most — is exactly the valley He promises to change into a door of hope. He does not lead you into the wilderness to be rid of you. He leads you into it in order to say to you, without all the other voices in between, one thing: My bride.

The woman in the wilderness is not only kept. She is wooed.

The workbenchThe Structure of Hosea 2 — Stripping in Order to Win

Hosea 2 has a taut dramatic arc that this chapter follows: first the indictment and the stripping (2:5-13: the wall of thorns, the taking back of grain, wine, wool, and flax), then the reversal on the hinge-word lakhen — "therefore" (2:14), where you expect a sentence and receive a courtship, then the alluring into the wilderness and the speaking "to her heart" (ʿal libbah, a tender idiom, cf. Genesis 34:3; Ruth 2:13), and at last the betrothal (2:19-20). The whole is one movement: God strips Israel of the false providers so that she may recognize her true Bridegroom. That is exactly the configuration of the kept woman, nourished in the wilderness by one unnamed hand (Revelation 12:6). Well-documented (the textual structure); the application to Revelation 12 is weighed (strong through the shared wilderness-and-nourishment motif).

Two details carry the chapter. (1) The Valley of Achor. ʿAchor means "calamity, misery"; it is the place of Achan's judgment at the entry into the land (Joshua 7:24-26). That this valley of all valleys becomes "a door of hope" (petach tikwa) is the reversal-in-miniature of the whole chapter: the place of the fall becomes the threshold of the return. (2) The Ishi/Baʿali wordplay (2:16-17): baʿal means "lord/owner" and is also the name of the idol; ish is "man/husband". The move from "my Baal" to "my Husband" is at once a shift from ownership to love and the banishing of the idol's name from her lips. The threefold formula we-erastikh li — "I betroth you to Me" (2:19-20) — is classic betrothal language; the verb aras is the technical word for the espousal that precedes the marriage. Well-documented.